As a brand-new nutritional therapy practitioner, I had envisioned clients flocking to me to find out how they could eat to improve their health. After all, I was so excited about what I had learned that I simply imagined everyone else would be equally intrigued to find out how you can actually use food as medicine.
There were a few who were genuinely interested in improving their health.
However, the vast majority were women looking to shed some weight.
Often the women were in their forties, their children were grown and these ladies were looking for ways to trim down.
It is so common for women to lose their identities to some degree when they become mothers. No longer are we allowed or able to focus on ourselves, now our time and energy is spent mainly raising our families. Rather than engaging in activities that make us happy, we are driving kids back and forth to their activities. Rather than making ourselves a nutritious and enjoyable lunch, our lunches are slapped together haphazardly last minute, if at all. We are used to putting our needs last, but this takes a toll on our bodies and souls over time.
Years later we hardly recognize that face looking back at us in the mirror. The tired eyes, the scraggly hair, the new pooch at our waist. Wondering what it was that we used to enjoy and how on earth we were able to fill a day up before we gained all of the responsibilities.
Not that we would trade it for anything. Being a mom is my greatest achievement and it provides me with purpose, hope and motivation.
There is no magic fix to shedding weight. It takes consistency and time. It takes positive self-talk and self-love. It takes motivation and a spirit of always doing what it takes.
Adjusting your diet can help many to shed some weight. I always tell my clients that we will first focus on properly fueling your body and replenishing those nutrient deficiencies. My protocols are based on whole foods which will lower inflammation and help to balance your hormones. Many times when these adjustments are made consistently, we will see weight loss. It is only after addressing all of those other issues that the pieces of the puzzle start fitting together.
Even if you are looking to lose some weight, please know that you are absolutely fine just the way that you are. You do not need to shrink yourself in order to be accepted, whether this is shrinking yourself physically or emotionally. Be loud and proud and figure out what makes you, you.